Used or Unwanted

I'm not sure which is better
or which hurts the most

Neither of them are wonderful
but I am not sure how to not feel them

It is like taking the less of two evils...

They aren't constant feelings.
It comes and goes as it pleases
But there are constant reminders
that these feelings are there...

To feel used
or
To feel unwanted

which would you choose?

I'm trying to choose neither, but its harder than you'd think...