How do you know when its time to throw in the towel? When do you say, enough is enough, this isn't good for me? Do you just stop trying and see if they notice? Or do you sit them down and say, I can't be your friend anymore, if this is how its going to be...
Sometimes, you have to do what is good for you, not others
Right now, its hard being the only one giving, when you need something to know that you aren't giving for no reason.
I am ok with growing up, and I realize some friends won't always hold the same place in our lives and hearts, I really truly understand that
but I'm really not sure how much longer I can be your friend.
I want to be but I need a friend too. and you aren't being anything near what I would define a friend.
1. Read at least 12 books a. Pride and Prejudice, must be one of those 2. Move to San Diego 3. Say yes more 4. Go on a date. by myself 5. Invest in a hobby-- bought a year membership to an outdoor boot camp 6. Go to a NFL game (Wasn't NFL but it was the OSU Homecoming game, which is even better!) 7. Run a 5k-- Did the Color Run, but didn't actually run it. So I will keep this up 8. Watch "Gone with the Wind" 9. Join a small group/book club 10. Go salsa dancing 11. Take a day off to go on an adventure 12. Cook dinner for a friend and take it to them 13. Visit a friend in a different city/state 14. Try 'The Bar Method' work out 15. Throw a themed dinner party 16. Visit the Monterey Aquarium 17. Write a letter to my former self 18. Make bread from scratch 19. Visit the Golden Gate Bridge 20. Make new friends 21. Create a new tradition 22. Go paddle boarding 23. Try Bikram yoga or Hot yoga 24. Come up with a personal motto-- "Do something today your future self will thank you for" 25. Learn how to sew 26. Learn how to golf